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redlipsandpolkadotss:

fromthecornersofthecurve:

That time I was in The Times.I love how they chose to use this quote - When I first met Dan I truly thought that he couldn’t fancy me because I was fat. I didn’t believe that he could have simply just found me attractive. Now I know better. To other fat babes - You are not a fetish you are deserving of love, you can be attractive and sexy and beautiful and handsome, intelligent men can love you not because of your size but because of you.

things i needed to hear

redlipsandpolkadotss:

fromthecornersofthecurve:

That time I was in The Times.

I love how they chose to use this quote - When I first met Dan I truly thought that he couldn’t fancy me because I was fat. I didn’t believe that he could have simply just found me attractive. Now I know better. To other fat babes - You are not a fetish you are deserving of love, you can be attractive and sexy and beautiful and handsome, intelligent men can love you not because of your size but because of you.

things i needed to hear

fat-sex-is-good-sex
In our culture we have been taught to dread being able to pinch more than an inch and to be disgusted with our muffin tops. Even if we are thoroughly rad and feminist and above that sort of self-hating thinking, sometimes we don’t like what we see in the mirror, and sharing one’s body with another human being is an incredibly vulnerable act that can bring out our insecurities. But know this: the one place you should never, ever be ashamed of your body is during sex. That is the time to celebrate its capacity for giving and receiving pleasure. Instead of pulling away, enjoy it when your partner embraces your stomach or fondles it – soft voluptuous flesh can be a real turn-on. The way a woman’s form often holds its extra weight – around the belly, hips, thighs – is seen by many partners to be uniquely feminine and extremely erotic. The love handles you might hide under hoodies during the day should come out at night in all their glory.